Yes that was me you talked to! The coincidence is unbelievable :D
I have yet to write my BSSC article, working on it tomorrow morning and was going to send you an email as well to say I hadn't forgotten you!!
But yeah, I agree with everything you said... I'm finally getting out of that sphere of negativiy she brought to my life and I'm still angry I let it affect me that much, but dealing with her antics was a 24/7 job, it was excruciating. And I tried so hard to understand her, and explain to her, so much energy wasted for nothing. Now she's completely convinced I have destroyed her reputation somehow and I'm behind some kind of giant vendetta against her. I guess she'll be disappointed to find out many people decided for themselves long before I even made a strong statement against her. I said ONCE loud enough what I thought of all this, three weeks ago, but by then, things were already in motion with other people who couldn't stand her attitude.
Then again, I guess it's more satisfying for her to think I'm the evil mastermind behind all this. I think it's funny though considering I'm the only one who tried so very hard to give her the benefit of the doubt... We're talking hours and hours of face to face conversation explaining the basis of "how to behave on the internet when you're in a fandom" and other things. Never worked.
So now I just lol in my corner and enjoy my fandom with the right people :) Good times!
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Yes that was me you talked to!
The coincidence is unbelievable :D
I have yet to write my BSSC article, working on it tomorrow morning and was going to send you an email as well to say I hadn't forgotten you!!
But yeah, I agree with everything you said... I'm finally getting out of that sphere of negativiy she brought to my life and I'm still angry I let it affect me that much, but dealing with her antics was a 24/7 job, it was excruciating. And I tried so hard to understand her, and explain to her, so much energy wasted for nothing. Now she's completely convinced I have destroyed her reputation somehow and I'm behind some kind of giant vendetta against her. I guess she'll be disappointed to find out many people decided for themselves long before I even made a strong statement against her. I said ONCE loud enough what I thought of all this, three weeks ago, but by then, things were already in motion with other people who couldn't stand her attitude.
Then again, I guess it's more satisfying for her to think I'm the evil mastermind behind all this. I think it's funny though considering I'm the only one who tried so very hard to give her the benefit of the doubt... We're talking hours and hours of face to face conversation explaining the basis of "how to behave on the internet when you're in a fandom" and other things. Never worked.
So now I just lol in my corner and enjoy my fandom with the right people :) Good times!